Rabu, 28 September 2011

'Sex Diet' to Prevent Pain Thirst for Sex

Sex is usually a list down on couples who have long been associated. This condition can certainly trigger the thirst for sex. But now there is a 'sex diet' that can be done to prevent sex-starved.

When couples stop having sex he becomes vulnerable rage, separation, infidelity and even divorce. Hence each pair are expected to have sex at least once a week regularly.

"Sex is the glue that makes couples stay together, without it your partner will only be 'good friends' or just a roommate who fight," says Ian Kerner, sex counselor and author of the New York Times, as quoted by CNN on Monday (2 / 5 / 2011).

Ian Kerner says that sex is like food, if someone is eating the same foods over and over again, then not only make but it will end up bored to stop taking the 'nutrition' is important.

Like the food pyramid, then there are several different categories of sex that should be consumed regularly, namely:

Category 1: Sex loving and gentle, and can increase emotional closeness (think the love-making).
Category 2: Sex is done only for the benefit or the worship of sex because it can reduce stress and more enjoyable (think spontaneous quickie).
Category 3: Sex with using the power of imagination, this proves that the mind is the biggest sex organ (think sharing a fantasy).
Category 4: Sex with a play all the senses such as sight, sound, smell, touch and taste.

In his book, 52 Weeks of Amazing Sex, Ian Kerner tried to give 'sex diet' is based on weekly consumption of one of these categories are:

Category 1: start by heating with steam bath uses a lot of candles and soap, and do not forget to look at each other passionately. Most people close their eyes while having sex, but eye contact (albeit uncomfortable) can enhance intimacy.

Category 2: the couple should not be satisfied only with time and same place. Try doing it in a different room and do not necessarily have a quickie climax.

Category 3: The brain is the biggest sex organ, but too many people who rely on physical rather than mental pleasures. The couple with the most satisfying sex life is a person who is willing to share a fantasy, even if just talking about it.

Category 4: in this category should continue to give each other. There will be no end of pleasure to stimulate the senses, whether it be taste, touch, smell, sight, sound or combinations thereof. Starting from the art of erotic massage, aromatherapy, came out with sexy lingerie and even listen to music that can enhance intimacy and sexual exploration.

"It's easy to get caught up in the same hole when in long-term relationship, because sex is a priority unwittingly bottom of the pile of other responsibilities," he said.

But with a diet of sex are taken from four categories of sex, will make a couple can enjoy the fun and no longer need to feel hungry for sex.

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